先秦儒家的夫妇伦理思想及其当代启示

先秦儒家的夫妇伦理思想以"男女有别"为自然基础,以"俗世之情"为生活内容,以"夫妇有别"为伦理要求。其演绎的逻辑元点在于"别",即以"男女有别"为自然基础,突出性别角色和自然分工;而最终的演绎结论也在于"别",即强调"夫妇有别",强调家庭角色和社会分工,以维护社会尊卑秩序,体现了周代宗法制社会,向大一统的中央集权社会过渡的历史进程中人伦秩序的不断强化,呈现出逻辑与历史相统一的特点。当代家庭伦理建设应借鉴先秦儒家夫妇伦理思想的精髓,在"夫妇有别"的基础上合理分工,团结协作,使夫妻关系由"博弈"走向"共赢"。

The Couple Ethics Thought of Pre-Qin Confucian and Its Contemporary Inspiration

For the couple ethics thought of Pre-Qin Confucian,"men and women are different" is its natural basis."Secular feeling" is its life content."Husband and wife are different" is its ethical requirement.The logic element of the couple ethics thought of Pre-Qin Confucian is the difference,that is the natural basis of "men and women are different" highlights gender roles and natural division of labor,and its final interpretation conclusions is also the difference,stressing "husband and wife are different",emphasizing the family roles and the social division of labor and maintaining the social pecking order.It reflects the strengthening of the order of human relations during the historical process from Zhou dynasty legal society to the unified centralized society.It shows the characteristics of logical and historical unity.At the basis of "men and women are different",contemporary family ethical building should learn the essence of the couple ethics thought of Pre-Qin Confucian.Reasonable divide of labor,unite and cooperate in order to make the relationship between husband and wife from "game" to "win-win".