独生子女家庭慈孝文化研究

我国慈孝传统文化延续数千年后,随着独生子女家庭的出现日益受到挑战和冲击。父母的慈爱逐渐演变成溺爱,使独生子女迷失自我,认为父母所给一切都理所当然,忽略回馈。现代社会节奏快、竞争激烈,独生子女生活和工作压力增大,面对父母养老有心乏力,最忽视关心父母的精神生活。拜金主义盛行、旺盛物欲充斥社会,慈孝传统文化氛围不断丧失。加强慈孝文化建设,父母应重视家庭教育,以身作则;媒介应宣传引导,营造舆论氛围;法规应保障落实,真正形成震慑;政府应积极规划、推行社会化养老。

A Study of the Loving and Filial Culture of Only-child Families

In our country the loving and filial culture has lasted for thousands of years.Yet the advent of only-child families is increasingly bringing challenges and shocks to this culture.Parental love has gradually evolved into indulgence,which has caused the only-child to lose himself or herself so much so that he or she takes everything given by his or her parents for granted and doesn＇t bother to repay for his or her parents＇ lovingness.In addition,the modern society is so quick in pace and so fierce in competition that the only-children are confronted with increasing pressures from both life and work,have a mind to support their parents but lack strength to do so,and often completely neglect their parents＇ spiritual life.Currently,money worship is prevailing and the society is flooded with greedy material desires.In such a situation,the atmosphere of traditional loving and filial culture is kept losing.In order to strengthen the loving and filial culture it is suggested that parents should emphasize family education and set a good example with their own conduct;the media strengthen dissemination and guidance to create a public opinion;the corresponding law and regulations be carried out to produce the effect of true fright;and governments at all levels actively make plans to practice the socialized look for the aged.