Reciprocity and Romance

This article examines the place of romance in the lives of single mothers. Drawing on interviews with single mothers in a rural state, I challenge prevailing views of relationships between single mothers and romantic partners that highlight the issues of exchange and that emphasize the possibility that women will be exploited by men. I argue instead that although single mothers generally adhere to the norm of reciprocity in their other relationships, in romantic relationships they accept substantial imbalances. In explaining this surprising finding, I consider the significance of romance within the context of the daily lives of single mothers and I explore how romance can become a strategic explanation for imbalance.     

对当前子女教育中"父亲缺位"现象的思考

文章主要阐述了父亲在子女教育中的"缺位"现象及其孩子患上"缺乏父爱综合症"的原因.同时从相反角度阐述了"父亲在位"有利于子女的健康发展,且不易患上"缺乏父爱综合症".作者在介绍了国外父亲参与子女教育的举措后,针对我国父亲在子女教育中的"缺位"现象提出了一些适宜的建议.     

IS LOVE BLIND? THE EFFECTS OF EXPERIENCE AND INFATUATION ON THE PERCEPTION OF LOVE

We hypothesized that participants in love and more experienced in romantic love (e.g., schematics) would perceive love more accurately than those who were not in love and less experienced. Judges viewed and rated a series of 25 thin-slice video clips of couples for whom their love for another was known via Sternbergs (Psychological Review, 93, 119–135) love scale. Individual differences in love judgment accuracy were large. Not surprisingly, participants who were in love at the time of the study and who reported having had a lengthy romantic relationship were more confident in their love judgment accuracy but, in fact, were less accurate. Apparently the love schemas people develop subjectively may not adequately represent the way in which the construct manifests among the population in general. Although love judgments may come easier to those in love, their perceptions of the love around them may be biased and inaccurate.     

是"兄弟情"之哀还是"国民性"之叹?--《伤逝》主题辩

社会上对贬损鲁迅的反击余音未了,又有人搬出了周作人当年的理论来解读<伤逝>,认为"<伤逝>是鲁迅意在通过一对青年男女爱情悲剧写兄弟恩情断绝后内心难言的隐痛".这是否定<伤逝>社会意义的说法.<伤逝>并非写"兄弟情",而是对"五四"时期沉湎爱情、躲避社会斗争的青年群体的典型刻画,是对知识分子"国民性"的反思、喟叹与批判,<伤逝>有其非凡的历史意义与现实意义.     

从曹禺笔下的畸形爱情模式看特定时代的女性悲剧

曹禺笔下的女性是被汇入探求妇女解放和出路的严肃课题之中的。侍萍、繁漪、陈白露、花金子和愫方这群有着“美的心灵”的女性都演绎了惊心动魄的畸形爱情悲剧。尽管悲剧的具体形式和原因是不同的,但被禁锢、被压抑的人格遭遇,缺乏自觉的主体拯救意识以及女性需待疗救的心理世界和不人道社会中存在的病态男性这些要素却是相同的。     

开齐梁风气之先的沈约诗-论沈约诗歌对齐梁诗题材上的开拓

沈约是齐梁两代的重要诗人.他不仅在诗歌理论上引导了齐梁诗歌的发展方向,而且善作诗,诗有名于当时,是"一代辞宗".他的诗题材广泛、内容丰富,开拓了诗歌题材的新领域.他首开诗歌写艳情之风,并让大量生活中的琐细情趣入诗,使日常生活普遍诗化.     

欲望消费与生态危机

需要消费与欲望消费是两种不同的消费概念。与需要消费相比 ,欲望消费既无经济合理性也无道德正当性 ,并且是生态危机的直接原因。欲望消费根源于启蒙运动宣扬的人性观 ,其直接后果导致了“公有地的悲剧”和炫耀性消费 ,使自然资源成为任意挥霍的对象。解决生态危机的出路是遏制欲望消费 ,而遏制欲望消费的途径是塑造热爱自然的人性。热爱自然的人性将“节俭”视为人的美德 ,将欲望消费视为恶     

浪漫主义与“五四”情爱小说

“五四”时期个性解放的时代潮流 ,带来了情爱小说的繁荣。“五四”情爱小说具有浓郁的浪漫主义色彩。浪漫主义对自我的肯定 ,对理想的追求 ,以及对人和人性的全面自由、彻底解放的渴求与“五四”作家精神气质的契合 ,使“五四”情爱小说在价值取向、审美品格和表现形态上 ,显示出鲜明的时代特征。     

宗教视角下《荆棘鸟》与《穆斯林的葬礼》中的爱情之比较

在宗教信仰的世界里,宗教与爱情始终存在着千丝万缕的联系。《荆棘鸟》和《穆斯林的葬礼》是两部充满异域风情和不同民族风格的作品,二者都鲜明地折射出了宗教与爱情之间纷繁复杂的关系。通过深入探讨两部作品中存在的宗教与爱情,并就其关系进行对比分析,深刻剖析宗教对爱情的束缚和惩罚以及在宗教禁忌之下两部作品中主人公爱情悲剧产生的原因,充分说明宗教对人们爱情及生活产生的负面影响。     

论土家族女诗人冉冉的中年写作

作为一名土家族女诗人,冉冉一直是当代诗歌评论关注的对象,但以往的研究大都注重她的民族身份和性别角色,关注她诗歌内部的情感和艺术表现方式,很少注意到生活环境的迁徙和时间的流变给她诗歌创作带来的变化。事实上,冉冉的诗歌创作近年来呈现出非常明显的“中年化”特征：体认到现实的世故,依然对生活充满希望;坚持自我修养和精神提升,从容和淡定地面对生活;关爱子女成长,用母爱包容并理解一切。与此同时,冉冉的诗歌艺术更加成熟,她用简单的语言表达丰富的存在,其意象和思维的跳跃足以显示出她诗歌语言的强大张力和艺术感染力。