Decision-making in extramarital relationships

A model was constructed and used to generate hypotheses regarding situational determinants, motives, and restraints affecting extramarital decision-making. Statistically significant differences between males and females were found on factors influencing extramarital sexual relationships. It was concluded that men have a greater expectation of personal involvement, are strongly influenced by perceived payoffs, and are more likely to respond to what they regard as justifications for their behavior. Women are more responsive to risks which they see as more likely to occur and to be more destructive. Avoiding hurt for themselves and others is an important consideration. Counseling implications are discussed.An earlier version of this article was presented at the national convention of the American Association for Counseling and Development, New York, NY, April, 1985.Ralph A. Meyering is a Professor of Counselor Education at Illinois State University, Elizabeth A. Epling-McWherter is a Executive Director, YWCA, Rock Island, IL 61201. Requests for reprints should be addressed to Dr. Meyering, Department of Specialized Educational Development, Illinois State University, Normal, IL 61761.