“80后”婚姻中的姓氏之争

被称为"80后"的一代如今已经陆续结婚生子,他们在给家庭带来幸福的同时,也带来了特殊的矛盾——孩子的姓氏应该跟谁。研究以昆山市5个1980后出生的被访者为个案研究对象,以开放式的定性访谈来获得研究资料,对"80后"婚姻中的姓氏之争展开了深入的实地调查。在对资料进行定性分析的基础上发现:"80后"婚姻中出现姓氏之争的原因呈现多样性,既有政策、个人方面的因素,也受传统文化与现代文明所左右;"80后"家庭对姓氏之争采取了相应的应对方式:生两胎、采用新复姓等。姓氏之争表面上是日常生活中的家庭矛盾,实质上却是受经济发展、文化变迁、家庭结构转变乃至价值观念等众多因素制约而面临的"复杂性问题"。

Fighting for the Family Name in the Post-80s Generation's Marriage: Based on the Gase Study of the Post-80 Generation in Kunshan

Along with the post-80 generation＇s getting married and giving birth to children, they bring the family both the happiness and contradiction. The contradiction is about the both sides of the post-80 generation＇s marriage are fighting for the child＇s family name. By doing a survey of five interviewees born after 1980 and gathering the information from the qualitative and open-minded conversation, it shows that the reasons of the fight for the family name are various. The fertility policy, the characteristics of the post-80 generation, the traditional culture and modern civilization are all the reasons of it. To solve the problem, they take some measures such as giving birth two children, putting both the father＇s and mother＇s family names in the child＇s name and so on. This problem seems apparently the contradiction of the family, but it is essentially the complex problem which is influenced by the development of economy, the culture change, the family structure and even the value of the person.