亲子冲突原因辨析——非性别与性别视角的解读

社会学界对亲子冲突问题进行了大量研究与探讨。家庭系统理论把亲子冲突看作一个多人系统的问题,而不是父母或子女单方面的问题,亲子冲突的来源可能是家庭成员系统功能的缺失,不恰当的人际关系界线,或者是防御性的沟通风格等原因引起。在这个时期,如果亲子双方存在不恰当的问题解决方式、沟通技能缺失、家庭成员必须生硬地屈从于规则等等,就会破坏青少年与家庭有关的信念,从而使亲子互动增加冲突的可能性,并且有可能影响到长期的亲子关系。

On the Causes of Parent-Offspring Conflicts from the Gender and Non-gender Perspective

Sociologists have done much research on parentoffspring conflicts.Family Systems Theory regards it as a multi-person problem rather than a problem concerning parents or children.The causes of such conflicts might be the poor systematic functions of the family members,improper inter-personal relations or poor communication.In this period,if the two sides cannot find suitable solutions to these problems,they will not form a correct concept of family and more conflicts will occur,which might lead to a long poor parentoffspring relation.