拟亲情交往机制的价值困境

费孝通教授在《乡土中国》一书中指出,传统中国是一个"熟悉"的社会,是一个没有陌生人的社会。"面子"、"关系"、"人情"是重地缘、讲亲情的"熟人社会"的三个重要维度。随着现代化进程的推进,人们公共生活领域日益扩大化,业、友、学缘相继出现,人们之间的交往范围也日益扩大,熟人间的交往迅速向陌生人拓展。但是由于传统文化的价值惯性,人们仍惯于运用传统的行为方式做人行事。拟亲情的交往方式便应运而生。但是,它自身蕴含着深刻的价值困境。传统伦理价值与现代伦理价值之间的矛盾在拟亲情交往机制下并不能得到调和。

Value Dilemma of Analogous Kinship Communication Mechanism

According to the widely noted opinion which Professor Fee Xiaotong had contended in his book Rural China,China was an ″acquaintance society″ without strangers.Relationships between people were being paid more attention and were only limited between acquaintances.Along with the advancement of modernization,the communication range is expanded from acquaintances to strangers.But because of the traditional value inertia,People are still accustomed to doing things according to the traditional communication patterns.Analogous kinship communication mechanism arises at the historic moment.Because of its poignant value dilemma,ethics value contradiction between the traditional and modern cannot be reconciled.