我们距两性和谐还有多远?——女性小说文本中的两性关系问题

两性关系是人类社会各种人与人关系中最基本的关系。几千年以前人与人关系的大变局即由伙伴关系到统治关系,就是从两性关系的变化开始的。这种变化可以说是全局性的和结构性的。封建社会丈夫对妻子的绝对权力发展为制度性的一夫多妻制这样一个两性关系的结构性毒瘤,极大地恶化与毒化着家庭亲情关系,也影响到全社会人际关系的和谐。一夫多妻制这个两性关系毒瘤的顽强生命力,表现为由传统向现代转型期一些男性的心理结构积淀"妻妾情结",也表现为近现代社会父权夫权政权对人的身体的支配、控制、占有,以及婚姻生活中对男人和女人的双重道德标准。新旧世纪之交以来,在全球化与商业化语境中,又出现了以否定女性人格尊严为前提的权力、金钱、性的交换关系,实际上是一种新的跨国的不平等的以女性身体物化为特征的两性关系。鉴此,通向两性和谐乃至社会和谐之路,在于每一个女人与男人的主体性人格的成长,在于对自我人格独立与尊严的守护。

How Far to Get Harmony of the Sexual Relationship from the Female Novel Texts?

The sexual relationship is the most basic relationship among various human relationships in the society.The human re- lationships have been changed from the partner relationships to hierarchy relationships based on the sexual relationship before thou- sand years.The polygamy system which husbands control absolutely wives is harmful not only to the families' relatives' relation- ships but also to the society harmony.A new unfair relationship which negates the female's dignity to get power and money by sex- ual exchange comes to the stage in the globalization and commercial world during the new century.In fact,the harmony of the sexual relationship is the key road of the society harmony by keeping independent dignity of every man and woman.