婆媳关系问题的多学科观点整合与有限解决策略设计

查阅CNKI和谷歌、百度30年来的资料,关于婆媳关系问题,生物学、法学、经济学、社会学、伦理学、心理学、文学都有研究成果,形成了一系列理论,比如亲代投资理论、养老资源争夺理论、家庭权力争夺理论、中介失衡理论、历史习俗理论、乱伦禁忌理论、角色失调理论、等差之爱理论、恋母情结理论、亲缘关系理论、成本收益理论、二次分离理论等。这些理论都从不同的视角提出了婆媳关系问题的假说,各自有理,但都难以完整地解释问题的根源,提出的处理原则和对策也都是常识性的。笔者认为,生物因素和社会因素的相互作用是造成婆媳关系问题的原因,解决问题的近期策略是道德修养、法律调节、心理控制;中期策略是家庭小型化;远期策略是提高全民经济生活水平,建立养老保障机制。

Integration of the Multidisciplinary Point of Views of the Problem Of Law Mother-daughter Relationships and the Solutions

On the law mother-daughter relations,biology,law,economics,sociology,ethics,psychology,and literature have formed a series of theories,such as parental investment theory,pension scramble for resources theory,family power struggle theory,intermediary imbalance theory,history and convention theory,incest and taboo theory,imbalanced role theory,arithmetic love theory,Oedipus complex theory,kinship theory,cost-benefit theory,quadratic separation theory etc.These theories bring forward hypothesis from different perspectives on the problem between law mother-daughter relationships,but none of them can completely explain the source of the problem,and the proposed principles and measures are also common sense.The problem of law mother-daughter relationship is caused by the interaction between biological and social factors,and the short-term strategy to solve the problem is morality training,legal regulation,psychological control;the medium-term strategy is to miniaturize families;the long-term strategy is to enhance the people’s economic life level,establish pension security system as well.